Tuesday, May 25, 2010

Cut Us A Break

I am not one for people feeling sorry for me in fact I try my hardest not to let that happen! I now have had enough Mike lost his job last February. After he had applied for over 50 jobs he was given 2 offers. He started in April and really enjoyed it. We were struggling because he was getting paid a lot less but we were happy that he had a job. today he lost that job do to some changes in the company. His boss quite and the CEO And CFO wanted less sales people. Given the fact he and a few others were hired most recent he was let go. I have no words for this. I have handled a lot in my life this is something I am not handling well. I need strength and I need not to ask why me but WHY NOT ME!!! It is really hard to do and I wish I knew why. Mikes confidence is shattered and I really hope we can pull through with faith. I know worse things can happen trust me I have been through them. I needed to get that off my chest. All I ask is for prayers that would be great thanks.

Tuesday, May 4, 2010

Passing Judgement

I think it is very easy to judge others. We should not judge others it is very important to realize you do not know the situation in others lives. I really find it wrong when people think they can tell you how to parent and compare your family with others. Each family is different each child is different. Each relationship is different. I am one of those people who is really worried of what other people think. I am working very hard not to be this way anymore. I know as a mother I do what I can do and I love my children with everything I have. I love my husband even more. I chose him and I know we will always be ok no matter what. So heres to not worrying what others think. I am happy and very happy with my kids. Each day I learn as a person and a mother and wife and I am thankful for that. Just needed to get that out.